In Tamil literature and cinema, the "Kanchipuram Iyer" setting is often used to depict a contrast between traditional duty and budding romance.
Most Iyer families have a specific deity in the Kanchipuram temples (e.g., Varadharaja Perumal for Vishnu devotees, Ekambareswarar for Shiva devotees). The family believes the deity chooses the spouse. If a relationship is "divine will," no parent can argue. Thus, many couples use the temple as a psychological weapon : "Amma, I met him at the theppam . Kanchipuram Perumal brought us together." The deity becomes the alibi for love. kanchipuram iyer sex in temple best